The Secret Life of Bees: When books 2 Film go Wrong

Ok I'm supposed to be away and will return to such after this post. I had to come and give my frustrations on The Secret Life Of Bees. That is an hour and forty minutes of my life I'll never get back. I'm not going to go into details b/c I don't want this post to be a spoiler. I guess I made a mistake when I decided to read the book FIRST then watch the movie. I am totally and utterly disappointed with how that movied turned out. The book was a surprisingly good read. I would have finished it in a shift if I hadn't had interruptions. This movie was Waiting To Exhale all over again for me only worst. At least WTE pretty much tried to stick to the book the movie just stunk. TSLOB had some key elements of the books but there was a looooooot of unnecessary changes i.e. Zach getting snatched by white men vs. him going to jail during an altercation. I understand that you can't stick an entire book into a film but it really felt like they tried to cram it all under an hour. There was no fluidity to the film for the book reader. I may have felt differently had I no prior knowledge of the Bees. The Black Madonna was one of the KEY focal points in the book and the movie pretty much skirted around it.

TSLOB is a story that is full of emotion especially as you watch Lily deal with the struggle of having possibly killed her mother. It's just sad that it wasn't portrayed as well as it could have been on film. I don't know who the screenwriter was but he/she could have done a much better job. There is never going to be an exact movie adaptation of a book but there are several that have done fantastic jobs. A movie based on a book should be equally,if not more so, enjoyable as the literary work. Overall the movie was just thrown together and it was a total waste of 4 actresses. Dakota Fanning is a phenomenal actress for her age and this film didn't call for any of her acting chops.

For the producers and directors to change the ending from the original book ending was the final nail in the coffin. Now I'm kinda hesitant to read Twilight before I see the film. I don't think I can stomach another murdered book.

Physical and Spiritual Sabbatical

I've decided to do a water fast for 21 days and "fast" from using the Internet for a month. I've got a lot physically and mentally that I need to deal with and get rid of. It just feels like this is something I need to do. I pray that the Lord keep me and guide me during this period.


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God is FANTASTIC!!

I witnessed someone else's blessing first hand. My aunt had done something to help a female pastor at one of our local churches and it was not monetary. The details of what she did I'm not to sure of but whatever it was it was received as a blessing to the woman of God.

Whoever brings blessing will be enriched,
and one who waters will himself be watered.

—Proverbs 11:25

Today when were were out shopping, we were standing in line to check out when this man came with his basket and was standing beside my cousin and me. I'm thinking in my head, why is he standing there when the line is behind me but I heard some other people talking so I was like ,maybe he's just waiting until the line moves up and I shrugged it off and gave it no more thought. So my aunt sent my cousin off to get something else . Not to long after she left, he got directly behind me with his basket. Next thing I know he touched my shoulder and said "Give this to that lady" and walked away. I looked down at my hand and he had given me a $100. I pointed in front of me in the direction of my aunt and he nodded his head. There was a lady in front of my aunt so I walked directly behind her and pointed. I wanted to be sure he was talking about my aunt and he nodded. I said "Titi, this man told me to give you this" and she turned and looked back and he just waved and left. I thought that that was AWESOME. I've heard testimony of God blessing everyday people when they give and show mercy on those less fortunate or in need ,look at Oprah, but to actual take witness it was mind-blowing. I've always known that God is like Jem. TRULY OUTRAGEOUS! That experience today just furthermore solidified my belief. To know him is to love him.

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This year Halloween fell on a weekend

"....me and Geto Boyz were trick or treating"  

 

 I love that song and it's the first time since I think '98  that I remember Halloween falling on a weekend again.    I bought a butt load of candy and crap for my "babies"  Pumpkins to hold it all that crap.  I can't believe how expensive candy is, but I love doing it for them.  They  usually get a goody basket for all the candy appreciative holidays so Christmas will be next.  I have to work Friday so I  gifted them early. The 3 year old is so adorable.  Everything inside the pumpkin pail was " What's this?  What's this?" 

 

Her:  What's this?

Me:  Milkduds

Her: MIlkduds?

Me:  Yes sweetie

Her:  Me want to eat this (still workin on using "I")

Me: Ok eat it

Her:  Mmmm... this is good *smiles*

 

I thought that " mmm this is good" was too adorable.

 

I also made a few pouches for the people who will work with me Friday night b/c  even adults love Halloween candy.  I just hope I can withstand the temptation of that big bag of leftover candy in my fridge :)

 

*deuces*

Body found in SUV linked to Hudson case

7-year-old nephew of Oscar-winning actress hasn't been seen since Friday

CHICAGO - Police searching for Jennifer Hudson’s missing 7-year-old nephew found the body of a young black boy in an SUV Monday. There was no confirmation on the identity of the body.

Hudson’s nephew, Julian King, hasn’t been seen since Friday, when Hudson’s mother and brother were found shot to death in their home. Police issued an Amber Alert for Julian, who lived in the home, and were looking for a 1994 white Chevrolet Suburban.

The body was found in a white SUV on the city’s West Side Monday. The license plate on the SUV found matches the vehicle listed in the Amber Alert issued for Julian King. It was towed away with the body still inside. Police refused to comment.

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They don't know for sure that this is the little boy. I had really hoped that nothing had happened to him, but the evidence doesnt look too good. I don't understand why anyone would want to kill anybody but I really can't wrap my mind around why a person would kill a child.